I am inspired by quotes. My all-time favorite, Margaret Mead:
Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world; indeed, it’s the only thing that ever does.
Today, Martin Luther King Jr. Day, the controversy over an out-of-context quote at his D.C. memorial allowed TV annd radio to replay one of his best fire-and-brimstone speeches:
Yes, if you want to say that I was a drum major, say that I was a drum major for justice. Say that I was a drum major for peace, I was a drum major for righteousness, and all of the other shallow things will not matter.
Listen to it. What power he had.
I gathered a basketful of new quotes last week as the new CEO of the Hispanic Chamber of Commerce of Metro Denver rallied the board of directors and staff. Guillermo “Bill” Vidal, a Cuban orphan who became mayor of Denver, oozes inspiration and leadership. He shepherded a spirited discussion and marshalled the energy of 40 people.
He opened with a collection of his favorite quotes, which quickly found their way to my notes:
Leadership is the ability to translate vision into reality.
A ship in harbor is safe, but that is not what ships were built for.
A poor carpenter always blames his tools.
People don’t follow programs they follow leaders who inspire them.
If you see a snake, kill the damn thing. Don’t form a committee on killing snakes.
The Hispanic Chamber had a tough 2011, losing its former CEO to a domestic violence charge. But I left the two-day board retreat feeling like I joined an organization on the brink of greatness.
Former Denver Mayor Federico Pena challenged us to become the most powerful economic organization in Colorado. Then he quoted the state’s current lieutenant governor, Joe Garcia:
Quit thinking about our potential. It’s time to act on what is before us.

































Autism: What the label means to me and my daughter
The autism label would be used less frequently, under a proposal by the American Psychiatric Association. I don’t know what this will mean for my daughter, but I do know what the label has meant.
The doctor who told us that Kai was on the autism spectrum immediately wanted to know how that made us feel. My gut reaction: “it seems like just a label.” I thought of my 7th grade friend Dave who was odd and couldn’t get better than Ds, no matter what he did. I thought of the third grader who I tutored in reading, who just smiled shyly and never read a word.
Yes, the doctor said, it’s just a label. Back when we were growing up, we just thought some kids were weird or slow. They got bad grades, lurked on the fringes, then grew up and figured out ways to fit in. Some became janitors. Some became investment bankers.
Having a label gave us ideas to make Kai’s maturation less traumatic. Her teachers know how to help her curb her nervous ticks. Her brother knows how to instruct her on interpersonal behavior without scolding. Her mom can predict melt-down situations and prepare to ease all of us through them. I can temper my concern about her academic progress by rejoicing in her unique spirit.
I guess the psychiatrists are concerned that autism labels are being handed out too liberally. I don’t think kids and parents care much what it’s called, but we do welcome the therapies that come with the diagnosis. Kai learned about personal space and thought bubbles in social classes. She learned self-confidence in a special skiing program at Breckenridge. She learned focus and drive through horseback riding therapy.
I think her teachers at Highland Elementary in Littleton would have developed a successful individual education program for her, regardless the diagnosis. But I think the label helped them fine-tune it.
The label helped us get some of her therapy covered by insurance because of a new Colorado law.
I worry that if the APA draws the label line differently that many families will be left to fumble in the dark.